When You Loose Your Virginity, is the pain only because your cherry pops?

My boyfriend and I where messing around with an old body spray sample bottle and he started masturbating me with it and i think my cherry popped because the bottle got extraamlt bloody and it kept bleeding after for a while. This happens sometimes when I masturbate and I would like to know the answer to it to see if that's why loosing your virginity hurts.